Prophecy1933 wrote:People always tell you it's your fault. How is it "your fault" when other people choose not to be friends with you? You don't have any control over their choices.
Because your traits did not meet their criteria of association. Yours. Not theirs. But you see, fault is an abstract concept we place on things that take the responsibility (we underlyingly place the fall on) for something ideal being undone. We can't put the blame on people, we put the blame on the person who holds the shorter path/ road, for he is the more realistic/ apprehensible towards having the ideal incident take place.
“I could show fight on natural selection having done and doing more for the progress of civilization than you seem inclined to admit. Remember what risk the nations of Europe ran, not so many centuries ago of being overwhelmed by the Turks, and how ridiculous such an idea now is! The more civilised so-called Caucasian races have beaten the Turkish hollow in the struggle for existence. Looking to the world at no very distant date, what an endless number of the lower races will have been eliminated by the higher civilized races throughout the world.”
― Charles Darwin