beta wrote:Sorry Master Yoda, I know this is your territory, but I couldn't resist. So the theory goes that if you get good at picking up regular girls you can eventually use your skills on strippers. The question I have is why would anyone want to pick up strippers. If anyone can just walk into a strip club and quickly get access to a girl's goods with a little cash, why would someone want to go through the trouble of attempting to pick them up? PUAs will tell you to visit a club, but not spend any money on a stripper, to differentiate yourself from the regular customer. She's supposed to be so entertained by your conversation that she gives you her number, you then have to arrange a date, take her out, and go through all the traditional b.s., which strip club customers don't have to do, just to get sexual. Only you have to pretend you are not interested in sex, but in her as a person. If this strategy doesn't land you in the friend zone, you just wasted an unnecessary amount of time to get sexual with a girl that gives it out like Halloween candy. If things go well between the two of you, you can hope to find yourself in a relationship with a girl who is materialistic, vain, and places no value on fidelity to you.
The problem here is, like a lot of young incels, you don't understand what a "woman's goods" are.
Because you've never experienced it (and you're fixated on it), you literally believe that the only time a woman has any value to you is during the brief instances where you are engaging in penetrative intercourse with her.
As most older incels (or normal people) will tell you - that's only part of the package. A lot of the real value comes from the validation that having a young, hot girlfriend brings a man. Think about how this relates to your own experiences - if you have friends that have hot partners, I am sure you find that it is an admirable quality.
This goes on all through life - in school, guys who can get hot girls are looked up to, make more friends, invited to more parties, etc. When you first meet a new guy, think about how the fact of whether or not he has a hot partner influences your own opinion of him. When you get older, then if you come across guys in your career, your assessment of their worth as human beings can be influenced if you are aware that they are going out with a prime female specimen. Bosses see this too - a guy is a "winner" if he has a model-standard girl on his arm at social functions, and his boss is going to think he deserves a raise or a promotion more readily than someone of equal performance, who turns up to everything alone or with an average looking woman.
Strippers generally count as upper-tier in terms of attractiveness (remember you are usually comparing them to other girls local to the town or city where they work, rather than to runway models or movie stars who you have zero chance with, if you are being rational about it). They usually make a solid choice if you're looking for the "trophy" girlfriend who brings other advantages than just looking pretty during PinV intercourse.
I've never dated a girl who worked in a strip club but I went out with a girl who was a successful cam model (MFC) and so I know this first hand. I was able to waltz through the front door of trendy nightclubs which would probably have mysteriously been "sorry we're full Sir" if I turned up alone. Waiters in upmarket restaurants treated me ultra-courteously, thinking I must be some bigshot because I was with a girl five points above me on the scale.