My dad is retarded. I argue that fashion sense doesn't matter to the female judgment system. Appearance does. Appearance/ Genes/ Body, and maybe status are the two most essential primal constituents in mating/ attraction. Money after. While I'd say good fashion sense is in the top 10, looks can still override its significance in presence or absence.
If you are incel I think you will not make it no matter how much you bend all of the changeable aspects about your identity. Women want men whose value exists highly in places that are largely inborn or unable to be acquired through effort. That's what makes them elite. Women want men who have rare features/ true accolades. Because of their rarity for it to meet the mark of idealness.
Women spend more time about how to be special, powerful, elite than helping the whole of mankind, yet they are humanitarian. #Femfailpsychology
I tell him all the time that looks alone are far more important. Sometimes I think you come off try-hard if your fashion sense is too straightlaced or on the nose of what women find ideal. Better to act loosey goosey and let all the looks do the talking for you. Women like men who derive their lifestyle from luck, but not effort. They just want you to have the work ethic (on top of your looks) to cultivate graces from civilization.
I also think the same about how men have a natural lean forward; they're not good postured. A chad tier with bad posture > someone with good fashion sense/ incel with good posture. Having a change of mind/ thinking highly of yourself doesn't make you automatically flex your muscles to good position. If you're more confident, you're more of a loosey leisurely kind of guy. Trying to read confidence from a person's body posture is like trying to understand the anatomy of a comet by looking at the stars. It doesn't tell you everything from your apparent view.
“I could show fight on natural selection having done and doing more for the progress of civilization than you seem inclined to admit. Remember what risk the nations of Europe ran, not so many centuries ago of being overwhelmed by the Turks, and how ridiculous such an idea now is! The more civilised so-called Caucasian races have beaten the Turkish hollow in the struggle for existence. Looking to the world at no very distant date, what an endless number of the lower races will have been eliminated by the higher civilized races throughout the world.”
― Charles Darwin