"you gotta make the money first. Then when you get the money, you get the power. Then when you get the power, then you get the women." Tony Montana
Women want the clear winner in life. Plain and simple. You can't teach that. You can't seminar someone to accolades. Women are drawn to accolades/ novelties. And if not for primal-hierarchy purposes, then through some other means. But they never go for someone who is definitely close to center. They want someone on the extreme point on the value venn diagram that are folded in with pain, harship, rarity, primalescently positive exceptionality to the everyday person.
Words of wisdom before I began blackpilling: "People primally want to be clear winners, because that will win you the best clearing."
It's people's primal instinct to be safe. And the best way to do that is to fulfill the primal hierarchic value. Abstraction. When people around you abstract things of value to you, they're handed to you. People want luxuriance. Luxuriance and high thriving stride is the vain-mind's indication of value. We like tyrannizing and dominating.