It's better than being someone who is innately confident. Confident people in my mind are uncritical and emboldened idiots. The insecure are intelligent and have a systematic mind to cumulatively collect reasons to be anxious usually. Though some can be low IQ insecure, many are high IQ realists who have the end in mind when they visualize themselves being applied to certain situations. And often what is insecure is not always essential. But the intelligent way to go about fixing an issue. Just going guns a blazing into the situation is stupid.
I also think insecure people are despairists who think that people who are weak/ incel/ etc. will always have a chip on their shoulder because they are innately inferior and they think in the darwinistic universe/ cumulative bleak realisties of the world will insist that only oppressors win. And that's true. And insecure people who have brutal realism will feel like nothing if they're not a natural oppressor. Hence why most of you insecure chads hate being incel/ the peasant victims in the Sexual market/ state of life.
Women and their underlying desire for the rash brashness and their general unawareness of life, no matter how lacking of substance they are is in ALL REALITY their repulsion for over observant/ reflective men. It's easier to control soemone who is confident than someone who is insecure. AND they want someone whose value stands with the perk of their psyche being situated on being a foregoer, because that subcommunicates he has the energy of someone who is able. But belief in being able is nothing compared to the substance of being able that insecure people see themselves to. Too much inner comfort makes you less aware than the more critical.
Women draw too much from energy, and not concreteness of material value sometimes, at least the ones who are the more feelistic than substance centric/realistic.
“I could show fight on natural selection having done and doing more for the progress of civilization than you seem inclined to admit. Remember what risk the nations of Europe ran, not so many centuries ago of being overwhelmed by the Turks, and how ridiculous such an idea now is! The more civilised so-called Caucasian races have beaten the Turkish hollow in the struggle for existence. Looking to the world at no very distant date, what an endless number of the lower races will have been eliminated by the higher civilized races throughout the world.”
― Charles Darwin
"A prevention of the faculty and opportunity to procreate on the part of the physically degenerate and mentally sick, over the period of only six hundred years, would not only free humanity from an immeasurable misfortune, but would lead to a recovery which today seems scarcely conceivable."
― Adolf Hitler
"The way of nature has always been to slay the hindmost, and there is still no other way, unless we can prevent those who would become the hindmost being born. It is in the sterilization of failures, and not in the selection of successes for breeding, that the possibility of an improvement of the human stock lies."
― H. G. Wells
"It is better for all the world, if instead of waiting to execute degenerate offspring for crime, or to let them starve for their imbecility, society can prevent those who are manifestly unfit from continuing their kind....Three generations of imbeciles are enough."
― U.S. Supreme Court Justice Oliver Wendell Holmes Jr., Buck v. Bell, 1927